opps XXX passed away 2days ago
dont want to mention here
I repeat...
Life is precious!
appreciate what you have now!!
love your family and friends
pray more!
enrich your life!
to energize your body and soul...
1. See Christ in every person.
This was the lesson Jesus emphasized in His parable of sheep and goats (Matthew 25:31-46). There Jesus reminded followers: "Just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me" (Matthew 25:40). * That teaching is a clear reminder that we are to see Christ in every person, and when we do, we are more apt to treat individuals from all walks of life with an identical courtesy and respect.
The story is told of a man who worked for a large corporation at their head office skyscraper. His only duty was to operate an elevator. Although there were three elevators servicing his side of the building, most people favored his elevator because he greeted everyone who entered through his doors with kindness and joy. One executive of the corporation frequently described the elevator operator by saying: "This is our million-dollar employee. He is just as important as the top executives in our company, because all our customers love him." When asked the secret of his popularity and influence, the elevator operator replied: "I look for God in everyone, and it gives me such joy."
my comments>>I agree. 2. Forgive yourself
Author D. Patrick Miller, in A Little Book of Forgiveness, offers this soul-nourishing wisdom: "Never forget that to forgive yourself is to release trapped energy that could be doing good work in the world. Thus, to judge and condemn yourself is a form of selfishness. Self-prosecution is never noble; it does no one a service." Just as you forgive others for their slights, misstatements, and errors of judgment, forgive yourself. Then move on.
my comments>>not only forgive yourself also forgive others la~
3. Learn to bend in order not to break.
A favored proverb among seasoned mariners advises: "We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails." By that they mean we ought to adjust and adapt ourselves to circumstances over which we have no control. Resisting such events is not only counterproductive, but can create even more problems. Go with the flow, and learn to bend in order not to break.
Consider the lesson learned by one man who was "downsized" by his employer. His disappointment quickly turned into major depression when, after several months, he was unable to find a similar position with comparable salary. Then he decided to roll with the reality rather than remain depressed, anxious, and feeling helpless. He decided to volunteer at his local school and church.
"They were thrilled to have someone with my experience," he said. The man also saw a doctor, who prescribed an antidepressant. He began to help out at home and "fell in love with my wife all over again." Deciding that money was no longer his main priority, he found a job at a lower salary. "The loss of my job gave me back my life," he said. "I sent my former employer a thank-you note for firing me and giving me a new life."
my comments>>I agree.
4. Maintain a spirit of goodwill.
When dealing with other people, believe the best about them, see the best in them, hope for their best, and work for the best possible outcomes in your relationships with them. In the Gospels it is clear that Jesus demonstrated goodwill toward the people He met. Jesus presumed the best about people. For example, He affectionately referred to those around Him as "friends" (John 15:15); "lambs" (John 21:15). And, when He was crucified, Jesus continued presuming the best about people, praying: "Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34).
my comments>>I agree.
5. Give up revenge.
"A man who studies revenge keeps his own wounds green," observed philosopher Francis Bacon. There is great wisdom in Bacon's observation. Harboring ill will toward another and cultivating dreams of retaliation only keep inner anxiety and agitation alive. By giving up revenge you avoid compromising your own goodness and losing your moral advantage. Be guided by the insight of this Asian proverb: "He who seeks revenge digs two graves."
my comments>>I agree.
6. Create your own inspirational book.
Of course, you can visit a bookstore and select from any number of fine inspirational books. But why not create your own personal and meaningful inspirational book? Buy a simple blank spiral notebook. Then whenever you come across an uplifting quotation, write it in your book. When you read a prayer that moves you, transcribe it into your book. Or write out Bible verses that you find to be especially encouraging. You can even illustrate your book by cutting out of other magazines. peaceful scenes from nature--forests, lakes, rivers, majestic mountains, etc. Just leafing through your personal inspirational book will restore calmness to an anxious spirit and will brighten a moment with joy and pleasure.
my comments>>I agree then I'll have one.^^
7. Be a person of integrity.
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Keep your life free of deception and duplicity. "Humans have a need to be moral. Living by time-honored values--honesty, generosity, kindness, respect--is good for our emotional and physical health," says Hal Urban, Ph.D., author of Life's Greatest Lessons. "Dishonesty--even the `everyone's doing it' kind--sucks up energy. ... Integrity, on the other hand, brings us peace of mind ... increases our self-respect ... and cements important relationships. When we form the habit of choosing integrity--action by small action--we become the people we were meant to be," he adds.
my comments>>"humans have a need to be moral" but why we take moral education but we didnt practice moral more often?
8. Lavish others with kindness.
Find creative ways to spontaneously and generously lavish other people with kindness. When it comes to acts of kindness, go the extra mile and double someone's pleasure when you act.
One day a woman entered a New York City soup kitchen and donated a beautiful diamond ring. The director, Dorothy Day, received it graciously. The mission workers wondered what Day would do with it. Would she take it to a diamond merchant and sell it? That act would certainly have been understandable, since the ring would easily bring a sizable cash gift to the mission.
That afternoon Day gave the diamond ring to an old woman who lived alone and often came to the mission for her meals. "That ring would have paid her rent for the better part of a year," someone said critically to Day. However, Day replied that the woman could sell it if she liked and spend the money for rent, a trip to the Bahamas, or keep the ring to admire. "Do you suppose God created diamonds only for the rich?" she asked her critic.
my comments>>if you found a ring on a road,would you keep it or sell it?
9. Seek out beauty daily.
"Walk in the park. Listen to music. Buy yourself flowers. Connecting with the beauty of the world around you is deeply healing," writes Mike Riley, coauthor with Howard Bronson of the book The Good Bye Book: How to Heal a Broken Heart in 30 Days.
my comments>>its good to walk in the park and listen to music but "buy yourself flowers" for what?
no need la~
10. Practice citizenship.
Writer Howard Fast once observed: "Patriotism ... applies to true love of one's country and a code of conduct that echoes such love." Show pride in your country by working to make the lives of every citizen better. Your own spirit will be elevated, knowing that you had a hand in improving the lot of another person.
my comments>>what??!!!!!practice citizenship?will you show pride in your country... would you leave your country if you could go that far?and possibly do ever come back?
your perspective on life's events can make you emotionally and spiritually stronger
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